gojiberra on Nostr: are typical men more attracted or less attracted if they have a 3rd date fireside on ...

are typical men

more attracted or less attracted

if they have a 3rd date fireside on her patio and she mentions that she built the outdoor garden lighting?

she asked me "did i scare him away"

i said no... i'm pretty sure having a handywoman would be a bonus, but...

are men scared off by women who install their own patio lighting?

or maybe they are scared off by the fact that she has a patio in the first place. idk.

is dating a woman who owns a house demoralizing for men who are below the average age of home ownership?

she was literally considering selling the house and renting. i said that was a bad idea.

but maybe a woman in an apartment is more palatable for dating for a man who is in an apartment?

NDA--not dating advice. sell your house and rent.