"Learning and implementing healthy habits while you’re still single will set you up for success once you do get married."
I'm reading through the chapter on how to reconnect with yourself and your souse from "How to Prepare Yourself for Marriage" and this is really good stuff!
I've been thinking of pulling out certain things from this book to put into a book for those already married as certain habits can also be learned post marriage, and will seriously help you stay married!
Here's one way I wrote about in the book for how to restore feelings of love for your spouse, or even how to reconnect with friends as a practice before you've got your spouse:
"Another way I practice is by reminding myself of things I like or love about him. For this, he doesn’t actually need to hear what I’m thinking, and it usually doesn’t take very long before my lovey dovey feelings for him return, and I’ll want to be close, both verbally, physically, and emotionally.
Something you can start practicing now is to pick a friend, any friend, and start listing the things you enjoy about them. Maybe what your hopes and dreams for them are. Try it with someone you may not have interacted with for a while, and see how your heart reacts. Most likely, you’ll gain a desire to want to reach out, and maybe check in on how they’re doing, or wonder about how something you knew they were working on before has gone. "
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