You are in a confidence spiral, and you need to pick things that aren't women and excel at them.
Women are not the end goal, and they're also not a means to happiness.
Women are adjacent to the life you live. Whether good woman, no woman, or bad woman, you are getting back at least partially what you're putting in.
And this is not bootstrapping. I'm not saying "this is your fault, morghur, back in my day". I'm just saying you'll never get it done if you don't get confidence, but you don't conjure confidence with magic. You do it by practicing things you're already good at.
Robert "Shlomosexual" Edwardly :windmill_of_friendship: 🇷🇺
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