Hudlemel

https://fedi.yesmap.net/@Hudlemel

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2025-03-29 11:18:23 UTC

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i don't think staying underground does any favors other than make people more uneducated about MAP rights and youth rights overall and view the whole community as abusive freaks
There needs to be more discussion among people and not more hiding than we already have been doing, we should take more disciplinary discussions with people trying to stay as civil as possible while not wasting time behind trolls or other people who aren't willing to engage in discussions and understanding both sides

2025-03-29 11:15:47 UTC

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i believe erotica based servers can be a good place for education for the people who wish to express their actual feelings about the things they wanted to do in life but are unable to do so cause of stigmatization and the abusive culture which indoctrinates people into taking reckless approaches and lack of understanding with social based erotism which often gets ignored as commodification is normalised
People can be allowed to express themselves but more social contact between people is what would help them alleviate their irl controlled lifestyle they live which mentally and physically harms them and these servers can be a good way to express themselves
I don't get the servers names sometimes tho as some servers like rape.net sounds abusive as hell and i wish they changed their name soon as it encourages violence

2025-03-29 11:10:30 UTC

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yeah i agree, i don't plan on leaving this server unless there is literally no one active here
I mean really an active server is required for the MAP movement to move forward instead of remaining in stagnancy is what I believe

2025-03-29 10:58:55 UTC

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i think PCMA is a good server until it recently got attacked
The other forums although they are active they don't discuss topics seperately and have more of an informal take on things I argue
I haven't been much active overall but I'll see how it goes, PCMA is better overall i argue but the others are pretty well too

2025-03-29 09:02:03 UTC

Can I ask something to the people in the server? Are there only like 10 members in yesmap? Cause there is almost no one who puts out any posts and it goes deaf ears
I'll be eventually moving to the mapsupport server as this one seems dead, i do wish there were more active people as pro-cs maps also need more recognition i believe

2025-03-26 07:34:32 UTC

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well that's the issue, the practices that you mentioned were not adult specific but was made to be such by adults as underage youths did not have the physical and mental capabilities to challenge such adults as from a biological standpoint one is weaker than the other from a general sense

2025-03-25 15:26:41 UTC

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well like social relationships, sexual relationships and other things that adults normally do like work, having complex conversations etc and overall having an understanding of the world around them which lets be honest toddlers do not have unlike youths at certain ages where they develop speech and intelligence enough to understand such practices

2025-03-25 14:57:32 UTC

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age of consent should not exist as people who can consent are barred from doing so, it should be an basic understanding that at certain ages people naturally choose to gravitate towards adult practices

2025-03-23 18:40:51 UTC

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again man i don't try to change their minds on anything, i only try to educate those who are new and often are misguided about pro cs and what it could actually be instead of what it actually is currently, that's what I proposed the idea of ethical pedophilia as it helps understand the problems that both pro cs and anti cs have and provide solutions to it
I don't seek to make any discussions with the admin here but only educate those who need an understanding over things, whether it's for them to listen or dismiss my ideas is all upto them here
Please don't think I'm wasting my time as education for people who are new to the servers isn't something that should be discouraged

2025-03-23 18:27:08 UTC

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we will see what happens, i would prefer to have a neutral stance as i respect their contact stances whatever it may be and i believe we pro cs should look to improve our own flaws instead of judging them
They may have some legitimate criticisms towards pro cs MAPs who don't consider their critiques sometimes and it's something that does need to change for sure

2025-03-23 08:46:05 UTC

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all of these statements really speak of how they push for propaganda against pedos as animals similar to how they used to portray in war times about Germans being seen as barbarians who would come to rape British women
The same thing is seen as throughout history it's been the same tactics employed by all sided who are anti pedophilic

2025-03-23 07:36:26 UTC

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well I'm not sticking around trying to change their minds here, I'm only trying to convince the pro cs people present in that server to consider their positions with staying on that server and in fact help them educate about the misconceptions that they have around pro cs which leads them to stay on that server
I believe they should be allowed to have their anti cs positions the way they like it but they should not try to indoctrinate more pro cs MAPs into being anti cs as we should be helping pro cs people and also anti cs people have a mutual respect amongst each other instead of fighting each other as in the long term antis hate both sides regardless of how much concessions they try to make
Anti cs have legitimate reasonings as to why they hate pro cs as in terms of ethical perspectives as pro cs MAPs let's be honest some MAPs here lean towards far right or center right ideas which I do see an issue in this server too as they push for harmful adult practices like sex work, underage pregnancy and many other practices which lets be honest even if we do abolish the AoC it would still lead to abuse among people
I believe there should be proper discussions between pro cs and anti cs on their stances from an ethical perspective as the idea of ethical pedophilia should be considered more as adult culture is leading way too many risks for underage youths to have a positive life experience which adults themselves are failing with and don't seem to fix their current issues
It's the same reason why many adults are hesitant to seek underage relationships as they fear the same problems that adults face would be faced by underage youths too something that I believe pro cs MAPs should look to provide solutions for in the long term and introduce better laws which replace the AoC and prevents abuse overall

2025-03-22 18:05:17 UTC

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I'm against abuse but I do acknowledge that both contact stances have their own flaws which isn't being addressed very well

2025-03-16 07:52:40 UTC

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well it may not be the case but I do see a lot of people who seem to dismiss any other maps aside from males, trans MAPs and women MAPs are not considered at all sometimes and it's a shame considering that our community should be open for all people (not for bigots from all sides including misogynistic and misandric, transphobic and other kinds of people)

2025-03-15 19:13:16 UTC

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regardless i do believe we should be more aware of such people entering our servers and radicalizing our audiences

2025-03-14 10:00:01 UTC

You know lately there has been a rise of conservativism and far right ideas in this server and many people have been known to be directly involved in it, so obviously for those pro-cs maps who are trans, women and other marginalized MAPs, for them i would only say that they must fight against such bigotry and conservativism for good
Expose those who are far right fascist MAPs and embarrass them and it they fight back then fight against them harder and make sure they don't show up back again
I probably don't see any other pro-cs server being around so i expect people to understand and get rid of such far right ideas for good as radicalism needs to be stopped
and in fact those ideas which actually help those marginalized should be promoted for underage youths to have a better relationship with adults instead of living in the same anti pedophilic environment which always oppresses MAPs of all differences and tries to label pedophilia as a mental disorder further censoring any legitimate scientific studies and research that MAPs have done for a long time
I do not believe mainstream maps would try to save us as really they are going with the "mental disorder" route more than providing better ways to implement ethical pedophilia

2025-03-14 04:15:26 UTC

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i still do think that it would have been a better move to expose such people and call them out on their bigotry,t hen censoring them for it for proection of the community, i do believe u should have showcased the evidence for it i say as these bigots go around spreading misinformation on their accounts to get more people in hate towards the server
I did see him showcasing hateful speech towards others in a twitter post and archiving it so i guess he got banned for that or something else related to ethnonationalism which u stated
I have seen many of their kind using the rhetoric of censorship to try to justify their actions really and get a huge following of people who justify their actions cause of the actions taken against them

2025-03-13 19:05:32 UTC

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yeah I can certainly understand that but the issue lies in how many people will read this article and then you know what happens, they take inspiration and push the agenda further for such treatments
I just hope someone edits this out for sure but I do believe it's a wakeup call for MAPs especially when people would be willing to consider such treatments as a normal thing and someone should probably make a video regarding this topic in fstube or somewhere similar

2025-03-13 18:13:36 UTC

Recent news: the MAP flag is used in the wikipedia article regarding pedophilia and the worst part is that they promote a drug named Depo-Provera which is not even FDA approved and is completely unethical with severe side effects with growth and development for young people and women and is promoted as a treatment for sex offenders and even underage MAP youths
Here are the links to the topics and this does need serious attention for all MAPs as they would surely promote and normalized this barbaric treatment
The second link is regarding the drug Depo-Provera which has been known to be behind developing brain tumors in people btw and also has shown to decrease bone density in women as a contraceptive
https://simple.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pedophilia
https://www.accessdata.fda.gov/drugsatfda_docs/label/2010/020246s036lbl.pdf

2025-03-13 16:37:31 UTC

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he even favorited my posts for some reason

2025-03-13 15:09:47 UTC

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even had one guy being blatantly racist here too

2025-03-13 15:08:43 UTC

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haven't we already have enough of national socialists here, some people have been blatant about it for a while now, we even have people talking about Eugenics and other far right ideas around here
I have been stating this issue for a while now and it seems a lot of people are pushing for such bigoted ideas sadly, I would be careful to where the MAP community is headed now with such people around

2025-03-13 14:36:23 UTC

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what happened exactly?

2025-03-02 04:22:08 UTC

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i honestly do not understand why paraphilias can't have a scientific basis behind their understandings
I'm pretty sure most paraphilias can be considered acceptable if there were enough research on them
currently pedophilia has much more research and development to justify their reasonings not to mention there is input from the underage youths to participate contact with adults too
So if other people with their paraphilias believe that maybe they can do the same then they should go for it and develop their own research and studies towards the ideas they fall in attraction towards like with zoophilia which again i expect zoophiles to involve in study and research about their attractions and see how they can implement it
For us pedos we obviously have a better stance and are recognised even if with scrutiny, but again with more underage youths coming forward and the internet helping them escape the old century ideals of the world we would see more people being brave enough to accept themselves as pedos instead of living in fear