2026-01-08T00:49:54Z https://njump.cloud.vinney.xyz Elizabeth https://njump.cloud.vinney.xyz/npub13tmyqjetskpc4n3g9n4lr9glvm0qq8gsva6wsjvwhddaqymju5zsgnpe7v https://profilepics.nostur.com/profilepic_v1/af5ce1e6f0cdb437d59ff70e465a3c647b70da0fa1440909f6b1fad61488454a/profilepic.jpg?1767798954 https://profilepics.nostur.com/profilepic_v1/af5ce1e6f0cdb437d59ff70e465a3c647b70da0fa1440909f6b1fad61488454a/profilepic.jpg?1767798954 https://njump.cloud.vinney.xyz/nevent1qqs9mh2gnsh9y8yf038claalqqjw0tys5m9dzrtgfksyzvnpp7gm4wgzyz90vszt9wzc8zkw9qkwhuv4randuqqazpnhf6zf36a4h5qnwtjs255s44c In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrmyf55dqh3kuvz7fu7sqasxye7rthm9letdcfmw3kdjh796pk43gjewt5e'>nevent1q…wt5e</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I like the way Jefferson Fisher explains it, he’s a trial lawyer, one of the good ones. He says:<br/>“Stop being nice at the expense of being real. Nice protects the image. Kind protects the relationship. Kind tells the truth, even when it’s uncomfortable. Nice won’t.”<br/><br/>The problem is a lot of people don’t want to hear the truth. The original thought is that perhaps it’s more kind to ignore them than to be fake. Not that a nice smile to a stranger or Good Samaritan act should be dismissed. People still deserve to be valued, of course. 2026-01-21T17:19:35Z https://njump.cloud.vinney.xyz/nevent1qqs29ae6nk0awmejds4dq8y2e2nn6k2y9htynykhw5yhtrcg680pgeqzyz90vszt9wzc8zkw9qkwhuv4randuqqazpnhf6zf36a4h5qnwtjs2hdhcq2 <img src="https://image.nostr.build/a129bc53c9b3682a8c41724582341c0db1bbb93ef5238536f12089d1b4cb4aae.jpg"> <br/>It hits when you choose being kind over being nice. You know the difference? 2026-01-21T16:11:26Z https://njump.cloud.vinney.xyz/nevent1qqszkxr5r9myer6v48cyn227w5kkf2q33tp3rss5gs0apwr4jmelfuqzyz90vszt9wzc8zkw9qkwhuv4randuqqazpnhf6zf36a4h5qnwtjs25fmt7u <img src="https://image.nostr.build/81de62f44a14d9c275b08d61a067b2c0a8bb411964817a7bf3ce4db6022070ec.jpg"> <br/>I was told this was a place for weirdos, happy to be here! 2026-01-08T01:20:22Z